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Life Playlists: this week it’s Sara Gethin’s turn to pick her five special pieces of music…

I was delighted when Jo asked if I’d like to take part in her fabulous blog series, Life’s Playlists, but it’s been very hard to whittle down my choices to just five songs. Here are the ones that survived the final cut.
The first musician that made a real impression on me was Kate Bush. I was 14 when she appeared on Top of the Pops singing ‘Wuthering Heights’ and she instantly became my idol. I saved up the money I earned from my Saturday job on a market stall to have a Kate Bush perm. It took an awful lot of conditioning! I bought her album ‘The Kick Inside’ (on vinyl, of course) and adored the cover; but most of all I loved the way her songs inspired me to be creative myself. Over forty years later, her music still has that effect on me.

With my new Kate Bush hairstyle, I caught the eye of a boy at school I’d fancied for a while ‒ to be honest, that perm was hard to miss. I couldn’t believe my luck when he rang and invited me round to his house to listen to a new record he’d bought. That album was ‘Born to Run’ by a singer I’d never heard of but I was extremely impressed with the record ‒ so much so that I paid the music far more attention than the boy. The boyfriend lasted only a week but I fell head over heels for Bruce Springsteen that night, and I’ve been a fan of his ever since.

Like most people who grew up on the coast, I miss the sea when I’m away from it. My husband, children and I have lived quite happily in Bracknell and in Brussels in the past, but I always yearned to return to the coast. ‘Talk to Me of Mendocino’ by the McGarrigle sisters conveys that strong sense of longing for a beloved place, and even though we settled close to the sea more than 20 years ago, this song can still move me to tears.

From a song that makes me cry to one that never fails to lift my spirits ‒ Sia’s ‘Chandelier’. I love the video too. I always wanted to have dance classes as a child but there was only enough spare cash for piano lessons ‒ with a very strict woman who hit my knuckles with a ruler whenever I made a mistake. Had this video been around when I was 11, I’d have watched it on repeat and tried to master all of Maddie Ziegler’s moves. I might have had a bit of trouble doing the splits, though.

Finally, I’ve picked the song my husband and I chose for our first dance at our wedding in Wiltshire 27 years ago. A friend recommended a local jazz band and we happily booked them without checking what they were like. When they arrived at the village hall in Trowbridge for the evening do, they turned out to be pretty elderly. But the moment they began playing our song, Louis Armstrong’s ‘What a Wonderful World’, we knew they were the right choice. They were brilliant. And it’s such a beautiful song, full of joy and hope.

Thank you so much for inviting me to share my choices, Jo ‒ I’ve really enjoyed reminiscing.

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Tomos is five years old and lives with his teenage mother, Rhiannon, who’s hiding a drug addiction. He longs to return to another place, the place he thinks of as home and the people who cared for him there, but he’s not allowed to see them any more. At his new school, Miss takes him under her wing, finding him a warm coat in the lost property box and sharing her sandwiches with him. But his teacher can’t look out for Tomos in the school holidays, and at the start of the Easter break he’s caught up in the violence of his mother’s drug dealers. How will he survive on his own when Rhiannon takes off and leaves Tomos behind?

‘Not Thomas’ Extract:

‘The lady’s here. The lady with the big bag. She’s knocking on the front door. She’s knocking and knocking. And knocking and knocking. I’m not opening the door. I’m not letting her in. I’m behind the black chair. I’m very quiet. I’m very very quiet.

I’m waiting for her to go away.

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About Sara Gethin:

P1040360 - B&WSara Gethin is the pen name of Wendy White who grew up in Llanelli, an industrial town on the west coast of Wales with a beach that gazes longing over the sea to the Gower. All her jobs have revolved around children ‒ she’s worked on a stall selling toys and in a children’s library; she’s been a childminder and worked for ten years as a primary school teacher. She now writes for children and her first book ‘Welsh Cakes and Custard’ won the Tir nan-Og Award in 2014. Her debut novel for adults, ‘Not Thomas’, written in the voice of a neglected five-year-old boy, was shortlisted for The Guardian’s Not the Booker prize 2017 and the Waverton Good Read Award. Her children are grown up now and home for Sara and her husband is still west Wales, but they spend much of their free time across the water in Ireland.


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Directs fictional destinies. Living on the edge of a wonderful Georgian city. Addicted to Arthurian legend, good wine, and rock music. Writes...mostly about love

9 thoughts on “Life Playlists: this week it’s Sara Gethin’s turn to pick her five special pieces of music…

  1. Thank you so much for featuring my choices, Jo. Reading back the part about the boyfriend reminds me of how I used to sit on the stairs willing the phone to ring with the chance of a date – I hope teenage girls are more proactive these days!

  2. Reblogged this on Sara Gethin and commented:
    Jo Lambert, who runs the wonderful Life Playlists blog, recently invited me to choose five songs that have a special meaning for me. Here are my choices…

  3. Such a fab piece and really unusual choices which I loved. I need to look some of them up! We never had a phone when I was a teen so it was either a crafty note slipped through the letterbox or waiting until you ‘bumped’ into the person one desired. Did not happen often. The series has worked out well Jo, so happy that is has. Follow-ups yet? Good luck Sara and much success. xx

    1. Thank you, Jane. Yes, I was fortunate to have a phone in the house as a teen – it arrived not long after the indoor toilet! Now that’s another story… Thanks for your good wishes and all the best to you too. xx

      1. LOL oh my Nan had an outdoor loo and as children we had such adventures in there. Then she too got posh with an indoor one. We always has an inside loo but all the time I lived at home, it was the read phone box only. x

      2. I loved the phone box that was across the road from our house when I was in primary school. I could be wrong, but I seem to remember it taking two-pence pieces back then – surely phone calls weren’t that cheap, even all those years ago!

      3. Just checked an I think 2d (old pennies) and I recall a huge pile balanced near the receiver to make a call, long distance was by appointment with the operator as you know. Imagine if we could have seen the future.

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